Thursday, December 11, 2008

Robot Girlfriend

The day has finally arrived: a man has built himself a robot girlfriend. (And another, less reputable source, here).

Of course, she's not really his girlfriend since he claims it isn't for sexual purposes. It's more of a servant. Who happens to be a beautiful woman (with an hourglass figure).

Aiko can do the cleaning, mix his favorite drink and read him newspaper headlines.

The inventor also seems to have a well-rounded and adult view of women:
He said: “Aiko doesn’t need holidays, food or rest, and will work almost 24 hours a day. She is the perfect woman.”

She's also built with a sense of touch, and will "react" to being touched or tickled. A point in Aiko's favor is that she will slap you if you touch her "too hard." I'd prefer it if she slapped you for touching at all, but at least it's something.

I'm of two minds about the entire robot girlfriend concept. On the one hand, maybe it would attract the misogynistic assholes -- they get a girlfriend they can treat like an object, and no real woman has to suffer for it. On the other hand, I can see it being yet another way to normalize treating all women like objects, and holding us to an impossible standard. Stepford, here we come.

One last quote I found interesting:
Le said: “Women usually try to talk to her. But men always want to touch her, and if they do it the wrong way she slaps them.”

That sort of sums it up right there, doesn't it? Some men do that to all women already; I'm not sure that giving them a fake woman to do it to with no consequences is a good idea.

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Thursday, December 04, 2008

Why We Write

Why I give a crap about popular culture is hard to explain sometimes. Fortunately, there's a beautiful, touching essay over at Murderati that comes close.

My favorite bit:

Story-telling has been around for millennia for a reason--we need to connect. We need to both transport somewhere other than our own daily circumstances and to connect to others, to know that someone out there understands us. Understands our fears, our desires. We need to escape, without physically abandoning our family and friends. Stories do that. We need the hope, the connection, the dream.

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Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Misogyny Watch: Upskirting

I don't usually read Pandagon, but there's a great little article over there about the phenomenon of "upskirting", i.e. the taking of pictures up a woman's skirt, in public and without her consent.

The article is a great dissection of the motivation behind this kind of sexual assault, touching on issues of objectification and entitlement -- the kind of entitlement that causes these men to get angry when their target is wearing shorts under their skirt. How dare they!

The comment thread is also unusually interesting. First, there's a troll of unusual talent there, causing a long ruckus about the definition of misogyny. K, I know we've had this sort of discussion before, but I think it's worthwhile to read, for two reasons. First, maybe the explanations of commenters there will make more sense than mine, and second, it illustrates my point about how certain things are part of a larger pattern -- the things this guy is saying are nothing new, either to me or to the commenters, however genuinely he may believe them.

I also want to pull this quote, because I love it:

Misogyny isn’t just hatred of women, and I think that’s where you’re getting hung up. You don’t hate a vending machine. But you swear at it and hit it when you put in your quarter and candy doesn’t come out. And the experience of being treated as an object and the experience of being hated for acting like you’re not an object, but a person with rights and feelings, are pretty much the same to the person experiencing it, and they fall under the same label.

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Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Breast Cancer Journalism

Things that are required in any article about breast cancer:
(1) Information on mammograms
(2) Information on how many women get it (data for men is unnecessary)
(3) Links to suggestions on lowering your risk
and, most importantly, (4) picture of a young, white, thin but busty woman, topless and/or naked, either turned away from the camera or demurely covering her breasts with her hands or arms.

Seriously, this is getting old. Today's example is annoying because it's basically about a scientific study, but I've seen the same sort of photo on a study in Nature of all places.

Why don't other cancers get this? Throat cancer reports don't have pictures of necks. Colorectal cancer reports don't have pictures of colons. Testicular cancer reports certainly don't have pictures of testicles.

Of course I know why: because it's an excuse to print a photo of a beautiful topless woman. And it's okay, because it's all in the name of saving women's breasts women, so that means it couldn't possibly be exploitative or objectifying.

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Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Feelin' Good

I've had this stuck in my head all day:

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Hope is a cliche, but I'm still gonna say it

In honor of President-elect Barack Obama's victory yesterday, here's a little election story of my own:

I voted for him. But I didn't really feel too good about it. I felt like who he was depended on which TV station I was watching. Online, the progressive blogosphere was excited and optimistic. Offline, I faced some fairly intense attempts at persuasion that he was a demagogue, a socialist, a Communist, and a liar. The seeds of doubt were planted too deep for me to feel too passionate about my vote. Even up until I cast my ballot I was still wondering if I was about to make a huge mistake.

But I sat down and thought about it from the outside, and I took a little advice from Jay Smooth over at the Ill Doctrine. He had a video about voting, and what you would say to your kids you stayed home for such a historic election. Well, what would I say to my hypothetical future kids about who I voted for?

If I voted for McCain, I would be voting out of fear. Fear that Obama isn't who he seems to be, fear that he really will bring socialism or collapse the economy or invite terrorist attacks. But if I voted for Obama, I would be voting out of hope. Hope that he is who he seems to be, hope that he really will bring change to our government and repair our failing institutions and restore our reputation as a role model for the world.

I could be making a mistake either way. But I would rather make a mistake out of hope than out of fear.

Yesterday, watching the entire world convulse in celebration, united in their joy and inspiration for the future, I can't feel like it was a mistake, no matter what the next four years bring. A world filled with hope has to be better than one filled with fear.

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Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Okay, so maybe he is the Boss

This rocked my socks:




I'm not a huge Bruce Springsteen fan -- he's filed under "Songs I Like if I Hear Them But Would Not Buy/Pirate" -- but damn, he just got added to my Awesome People List.

Apparently, sometime in the late 80's, Springsteen came across a busker on the streets of Copenhagen and just pulled out a guitar and jumped in. That was probably the greatest day of that busker's life, and probably somewhere in the Top 20 for most of the people watching.

In this day and age, our music and culture seems to belong more and more to corporations and less to people. Copyright holders want to be paid if you hum their songs waiting in line at the DMV. I'm 90% sure the only reason buskers don't get Cease and Desist letters is that (a) they're too poor and (b) they're hard to get mailing addresses for. So it's really refreshing to see an artist like Bruce Springsteen who recognizes that it's not about album sales or world tours, it's about singing on the street to the ordinary people who love the music you make.

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Monday, September 22, 2008

Back off man, I'm a scientist

Over at the Onion's A.V. Club, they asked all their critics to name their most re-watched movies.

I was deeply satisfied to see Ghostbusters turn up on 3 of the lists, since that's my all-time most-watched, wore-out-the-tape-then-the-DVD, can-quote-it-by-heart movie. I'm a notorious re-watcher in general -- I have been known to watch the same movie every day for weeks. I used to rent the same things every time we went to Blockbuster as a kid. I am a creature of habit.

So yeah, I watch Ghostbusters probably once a month or so, or whenever I'm in a bad mood. The rest of my list: Finding Nemo, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Airplane (more when I was younger), Back to the Future, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Flight of the Navigator. Honorable mention to Jurassic Park and the first Star Wars.

And since several people have admitted to me that they read this blog, I'm going to try to tempt you to comment. What are your most re-watched movies?

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Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Jewel of Medina

The Jewel of Medina is a controversial new novel, telling a fictionalized story of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Mohammad. The book was pulled from publication by Random House before being picked up later by Gibson Square. The drop was apparently due to fears that it will "become a new Satanic Verses", offend Muslims, and provoke violence. Those are three very different reasons, by the way, and have been discussed elsewhere with much more knowledge and sensitivity than I can provide here.

No, as always, I'm interested in the trivial, pop culture questions.

For those connoisseurs of romance novels among you (as I'm sure there are many), Smart Bitches Read Trashy Books is a must-read blog. They're hilarious, and take romance novels just as seriously as they deserve to be taken (which is more than you'd think, but less than the cover illustrators would hope.)

Anyway, over at Smart Bitches they were having a very lively discussion about the topic, complete with input from Muslimahs of varying flavors of Islam and a few side-tracks into the definition of censorship.

I'm interested in the defense that some of the commenters are employing -- the "it's fiction, so facts don't matter" gambit.

So let's look at that in a little more detail...

This is a central problem for all historical fiction: maintaining factual accuracy. Anyone who has ever discussed Braveheart with a Scotsman has encountered the visceral hatred that historical inaccuracy can provoke. Offenses can range from the minor (Pirates didn't dress like that!) to the major (basically all of the Patriot). The response to this is often some variant on "story comes first", often coupled with "people aren't stupid", i.e. they don't get their facts from movies.

Oh ho ho, I beg to differ.

Of course people get their facts from movies. I pointed out in a previous post that criminals learn from CSI. How many people can point to Grey's Anatomy as the source of all their medical knowledge? How many people think you can be knocked over by a bullet (argh), see laser beams (Argh), or hear sounds in space (ARGH)?

Anyone who teaches science -- or for that matter, history -- can tell you that people get their facts from pop culture.

So, the next question is, who cares? Does it matter if Random Individual Alpha has woefully wrong ideas about the common clothing of pirates, the correct procedure for an emergency tracheotomy, or the relative speeds of light and sound?

Sometimes, no. I'm sure pirates did not dress, act, or speak, like Jack Sparrow, and frankly my dear I don't give a crap. It makes for great cinema. In cases like that, particularly for fantastic or wish-fulfillment genres (see also: Action, Adventure), some degree of poetic license is expected, and the inaccuracies are generally harmless.

But sometimes, yes. Someone who learns CPR from movies will most likely do it wrong. Someone with a particularly poor understanding of physics may end up on the wrong end of a lightning bolt. The odds of this are admittedly pretty small -- outside the Darwin awards, I doubt it's a common cause of death.

But there is another, more insidious factor at work here. A pirate does not know or care if we completely fabricate his entire culture. A Navajo man does. Or an African woman. Or anyone outside the Hollywood "all-American" mindset, really. If the villain is a Southern Baptist preacher, most Americans know that it's not an accurate portrayal of the religion. If the villain is a Vodou houngan, most Americans are not going to know the difference between fact and fiction -- and the fiction is usually not favorable. For a practitioner of Vodou, is the constant portrayal of their religion as voodoo dolls and zombies just a case of poetic license? Or does it tie into centuries of cultural oppression and attempts to use their religion against them?

It's not just the negative portrayals that can have damaging effects. How many people know anything about the Romany that they didn't learn from Hollywood? How much of that Hollywood image do you think is accurate? The romanticizing of "gypsy" culture provides a rose-tinted, fantastical vision of a life of freedom and music, while obscuring the real issues of prejudice and poverty faced by Romany populations around the world. It makes it hard for them to obtain assistance or sympathy -- after all, people who dream of running off to join the gypsies aren't going to understand why anyone would be unhappy in that life.

So what's the bottom line? For me, I'd say awareness and sensitivity. If you have to change a fact -- fashion, or food, or shaved armpits -- that doesn't play into harmful stereotypes, further the oppression of a unprivileged group, or misrepresent a significant cultural or religious practice, then I say have at it. Go ahead. Let that pirate wear his 17th century shirt with his 19th century pants and 20th century mullet.

But if you're writing a story about how happy slaves were in the antebellum South, come here so I can hit you.

And if you're fiddling around with the sacred texts of another religion, one that is not your own, one that is frequently misunderstood and deceptively portrayed by the majority of mainstream media, one that is demonized regularly to provide movie villains or political scapegoats....it'd better be a DAMN good story.

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Tuesday, September 02, 2008

Palin Preview

Thanks to Kostas for sending me this article:

The Palin Media-Sexism Debate: A Preview

From here, it looks like a spot-on prediction of the next few months. People are going to say sexist stupid things, and it's going to be spun in a dozen different ways. The stupid sexist things have already started, by the way.

I just want to answer a couple of questions the author raises in the piece:

Question: is it still a sexist question when women are the ones asking it? Extra credit: given that Todd Palin is on leave from work, isn't it also sexist against stay at home dads?)

(1) Yes. It's called internalized sexism. And no, it doesn't mean that women are worse/more sexist than men, or that sexism doesn't exist, or that feminism is dead.

(2) No. It means that sexism is also bad for men, by enforcing strict binary gender roles that punish men as well as women. It's sexism against women that states that only women can care for their children and belong at home, but that overflows into an assumption that men cannot be primary caregivers. Like racism, sexism hurts everybody, but that doesn't mean everybody is equally oppressed by it.


I do want to say this: many women are not happy with Palin being selected as VP. Many women, particularly Clinton supporters, feel that it is a patronizing ploy that assumes they will vote for anything with ovaries. Palin stands firmly against many Clinton supporters and against many feminists on a number of issues -- reproductive rights and gay rights in particular.

However, feminists will still decry any and all sexist attacks on her, any demeaning criticism based on her family choices or appearance. Because that's how feminism works.

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Monday, September 01, 2008

Quick Link: Hollywood Feminism

From the humor pages of cracked.com:

Hollywood's 5 Saddest Attempts at Feminism

Hilarious, but sadly true.

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Friday, August 29, 2008

Things That Are Awesome: German Language School Commercial

I just think this is hilarious:




Though I don't quite understand how people who don't speak English will understand the commercial...

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Thursday, August 28, 2008

Evolution Education

There's a great article over at the New York Times about a teacher in Florida making the switch to teaching evolution.

A Teacher on the Front Line as Faith and Science Clash

I remember being really shocked when I realized that I had never been taught evolution in school. I'd learned it from my parents and my brother (now a biologist), but I had never heard the words uttered in science class. Hopefully now that the standards are changing, that won't happen any more.

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Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Happy Anniversary

Happy 88th Anniversary to the 19th Amendment!

Today, 88 years ago, the Secretary of State certified the 19th Amendment to the Constitution, giving women the right to vote.

Sometimes I find it hard to believe it was so recent. Other days, it feels like barely any time has passed.

Thank you to our suffragette sisters for starting the fight, and thanks to all our sisters still fighting it today.



(And H/T to My Improvisational Life for the reminder.)

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Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Holy Animal Stripclub, Batman!

Orangina, in their infinite wisdom, have decided that this ad is the perfect way to launch their orange-flavored soda-thing in the UK.

Warning: this is pretty weird. Also, possibly NSFW.



OH MY GOD

Okay, ignoring the deeply weird implications of advertising to men with pole-dancing animals, I have just two things to say:

(1) Male peacocks are the ones with the brightly-plumaged tails. I still trying to figure out what that's supposed to mean.

and

(2) HOLY CRAP THAT POLE-DANCING FLAMINGO WAS TERRIFYING

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Monday, August 25, 2008

Things That Are Awesome: Sir Nils Olav
































I'm late to the party, but how is this not awesome?

Penguin Granted Norwegian Knighthood

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Thursday, August 21, 2008

My Hand is Up

Over at Shapely Prose, they're having a harassment thread. It's in response to a troll who doesn't understand feminism, and who thinks men aren't as critical of women's appearances as women are. So the bloggers called for counterexamples.

Hands up if a man has “said something cruel or sexist about your appearance.” Hands up if you’ve witnessed a man saying something cruel or sexist about another woman’s appearance.

Now it's expanded to examples of sexism and misogyny in women's lives -- street harassment, sexism at work, rape and date rape and stalking and murder.

There are over 400 comments and counting.

It's horrifying. You get angry and sad by turns reading it. I realized that despite the dozens of experiences burned into my brain that I could add to the thread, hurtful words or unwanted touches that I have never forgotten, I am one of the lucky ones.

To everyone who doesn't think sexism still exists, who doesn't think women live with sexual violence or threats or harassment every goddamn day of their lives, GO READ THIS THREAD.

My hand is up.

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Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Things That Are Awesome: Cake Wrecks

Quick link:
Cake Wrecks: Your source on the Web for hilarious bakery disasters.

Some highlights:
the Hall of Infamous Cakes
Cakes That Didn't Have Spell-Check
The Poop Cake
The Fireman and his "Hose"
And my personal favorite, the OH MY GOD IT'S LOOKING AT ME Baby Cake

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Saturday, August 16, 2008

Women as Objects Sweepstakes Winner

I'm going to hope this is kidding:

"Playboy TV's Gadget or the Girl will make contestants choose between a weekend getaway with a girl of their choice or a surprise high-tech toy."

Reader Contest time! What's the worst thing about this garbage?

(a) the outright statement that women are objects/status symbols to be acquired
(b) the implication of prostitution
(c) the setup of the women as gold-digging temptresses who are rewarded if they seduce/trick the man into picking them
(d) the idea that men are such giant idiots that this show would appeal to them
(e) all of the goddamn above

Winner gets a subscription to "Oh For Crap's Sake" Weekly.

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Friday, August 15, 2008

Sexism, Strength, and Dominance in Disney

I think this is pretty interesting:



The vid makes some interesting points, particularly since most analysis of Disney films I've seen has focused on the racial issues and the "Princess Culture", not the images of the male heroes.

However, it has some serious flaws, particularly in the choice of clips. The clips of Mulan were excellent, since that's the film most often held up for its feminist message, but the ones of Beauty and the Beast are fairly pointless -- yes, Gaston is a big macho d-bag, but he's the bad guy, and his hypermasculinity is often held up as absurd or an outward sign of his personality flaws. The hero of the movie, the Beast, is actually fairly gentle and conflict-avoiding (witness his scene with the birds in the snow). I think you could write a fairly interesting essay about the Beast himself, and how his hyper-aggressive appearance may be used to offset his gentleness to preserve the requisite amount of masculinity.

But I love this for pointing out how many Disney movies end with a battle between two men, often over a woman.

And it's a very real issue -- the image of the square-jawed, barrel-chested, savior-prince may be just as damaging as the image of the slim, white-skinned, delicate princess-in-distress, to both boys and girls.

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Thursday, August 14, 2008

Sean Tevis for Secretary of Awesome

This dude is running for State Representative in Kansas.

His campaign site is goddamn hilarious.

I'm trying not to be temped to send campaign donations on that basis of (a) that guy is funny, (b) hey, he's an internet person! Yay internet people!, and (c) he likes XKCD! God, if only all our politicians were geeks...

Anyhow, go check him out. Maybe drop a dime if he seems like your kind of candidate. I'm going to see if I can find out more about his policies, but he supports Internet freedom and evolution in schools (doubly important in Kansas), so that's at least two points in his favor.

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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Pop Culture Matters

I'm late to post this, but I just want to say a huge honking DITTO to Dan in this PhD comic:



Pop culture is INCREDIBLY powerful in creating the worldview of people who consume it. And not just to children -- adults as well have their ideas, preconceptions, and prejudices informed and reinforced by the images they see around them everyday. One great example is the plethora of crime shows, and how they have changed how actual criminals behave.

This is why I get so angry when people defend something as "just a TV show" or "just a movie." It's not. It's art, and art is powerful.

Basically, this is a long-winded justification for the fact that I'm probably going to talk a lot about pop culture -- sexism, racism, or just bad writing -- because I think it's just as important as talking about politics. Also, way more entertaining.

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Monday, August 11, 2008

Things That Are Awesome: How to Tell People They Sound Racist

At some point, I hope to actually blog more than once in a blue moon.

But first, a funny and insightful vid about talking about racism.

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Monday, June 23, 2008

Things That Are Awesome: Jewish Tartan

There is now an official Jewish tartan!

After 300 years of Jewish presence in Scotland, Scottish Jews now have an official tartan to call their own, thanks to the efforts of Rabbi Jacobs, a Scottish-born rabbi.

From the New York Jewish week article:

The main colors are blue and white, for both the Israeli and Scottish flags. Stripes of gold represent the Ark of the Covenant, while silver stripes reflect decorations for the Torah scroll and deep red stripes recall kiddush wine. The striping sequence runs in threes and sevens, three for the three fathers of Judaism and the three rabbis of a bet din, and seven for the idea of wholeness, Rabbi Jacobs said.


Pretty awesome. I may have to choose between this and the Antarctic tartan for my kilt-skirt now...


(You can buy Jewish tartan kilts, tablecloths, and of course yarmulkes at jewishtartan.com. And yes, they're kosher. Hee!)

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Friday, June 20, 2008

Things That Are Awesome: Chicken Chicken Chicken

This made me cry with laughter.

Make sure you watch all the way to the end!

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Fat Rant 3!

Joy Nash came out with a new Fat Rant! Hurrah!

The original Fat Rant:



And today's new edition, "Fat Rant 3: Staircase Wit":



I'm pretty sure the original Fat Rant video was how I wandered into Fat Acceptance in the first place. I think. It's been a while.

Joy is talented, gorgeous, and a powerful voice for fat acceptance. The first Fat Rant was watched by more than a million people, and was probably the first view of FA for most of those people as well. Kudos to her for being brave enough to put herself out there and for making such a great video.

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Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Zombie Blog

Okay, I know it's been a while since I updated anything, but that's about to change.

I'm starting to comment more often at various blogs I read, and I think I'm going to start leaving this blog as my website name-link. That means, I need to put more here than just some random youtube clips and Antarctica pictures.

So what will be here? Well, most of the blogs I read at the moment deal with social justice issues -- anti-racism, fat acceptance, and feminism in particular. So while the Things That Are Awesome series will certainly continue, so will Misogyny Watch, and probably a Things That Are Annoying series as well.

My experience with social justice issues is tiny, so I'm sure I'm going to make mistakes and show my ass, but hopefully I'll learn something doing it.

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